Awesome Girlfriend Megan and I try to be very even when it comes to paying for bills at restaurants, etc. A study is out on financial infidelity. Some feel that a separate account is worse than cheating? NO way! If you have full honesty, trust and Teamwork then there isn't a problem. I've seen this happen before where the guy gets some jewelry to surprise his significant other, and she gets alerted or can see the purchase online! You think when I buy an engagement ring for Awesome Girlfriend Megan, that I want the surprise to be ruined for her?! No way! You can see the article by clicking here.